Sudden thought

Was studying and gaming, suddenly this come across my mind
And I decided to blog about=P

May, a girl who did my hair for me since 6 years ago, even till now...
She's a 30++ age lady, well I think so=)
Had a family with only 1 son (7 years old), pregnant a baby girl last few years ago,unfortunately the baby dropped just 1 or 2 months before she is going to give birth (definitely its a hard time for her, as I heard when she told me)
Living with the mother's in law, the house is actually a grocery store (perhaps the in law's business) and they are staying upstairs, 1 room for the little family, the rest of the rooms occupied by the mother in law and the sisters
Quite a big and comfortable house for me, the last round I visited, heard she got herself a new house in Puchong and its under renovation.
Obviously she is earning xD
The husband seems like not contributing much (as what I see and feel~)

Whenever me and my friend visited her, she will talk a lot with us about life
She will advice us, must get a good husband with no financial problem, don't become hairdresser, won't earn much..

Heard she answered a phone call that day, talking with the collegues, speaking that they went club (I was like OMG, so modern~), talking about dancing with GUYS, talking with foul words =.=
I was wondering, is that their life? The group of people she mixed, makes her younger than her age BUT, not with this bad influence right? Especially she got a small kid at home, she got a husband...clubbing and dancing with GUYS?
Hmm....I am sure the husband knows about it cause the husband was there when she on call, talking quite loud.....
I know youngster nowadays love going drink, dance plus gossiping~ but if you had a family, will you be the same?
For me I wouldn't do so after I have my family, maybe chill out with friends and chit-chatting but not so HOT~
Well that makes me think of----- I CAN'T EVER BE LIKE HER!
That is not I want when I'm at her age..

What I'm suppose to do?
1st- I cannot mix with those people like her collegues
2nd- In order not to get those collegues, job field is crucial! Choose the wise 1
3rd- Mix with high class people, provided u are one of them=.= Study Hard! And become educated people~
4th- Get a good husband that can control me? ughh..nono, is a husband that can let me decide for what I want and perhaps provide me some little good advices=)

Ofcourse life ain't always be like what we want~
Be satisfy of what we had and try to improve
Most important is stay HAPPY always~ ^.^